Meghan Markle said she would leave Prince Harry if he does not fulfill her condition: she gave him an ultimatum
Who is the leader and who is the follower in the Sussex family can be determined without the use of a profiler.

The Duchess always has a good sense of what she needs and makes various kinds of efforts. Yet, Harry occasionally adjusts to his wife.
Royal blogger and journalist Valentine Lowe stated that the actress offered her future husband a severe ultimatum even before the wedding in his book Courtiers:
The Secret Power Behind the Throne.

Harry was warned by Megan that she would leave him if he kept their connection a secret.
She threatened to end things with you if you don’t publicly declare that I am your girlfriend, the insider stated. Harry was terrified, the text claims.
Another insider claimed that the prince was overcome with emotion and kept repeating that his girlfriend was going to abandon him.

He ultimately sought assistance from Jason Knauf, Kensington Palace’s public relations secretary.
Harry urged Knauf to issue a statement declaring that Meghan is his girlfriend when he contacted him. Markle wished to have their relationship’s seriousness publicly acknowledged.
She was certain that the palace would not defend her against attacks by the press, according to Lowe.

Additionally, he asserts that despite Meghan enjoying the limelight, she didn’t see the point of everyone going out and making small conversation with random people.
According to numerous workers, Markle reportedly said at least once, «I can’t believe I’m not getting paid for this,» according to his book.